For a guy to have a sexual interest in the opposite sex, it is not at all necessary to create a romantic setting with candles. This can happen anywhere, anytime. An erotic background can appear unexpectedly during work, walks in the woods or ordinary conversation.
To the question: "How to understand that a man is awakened? " - every girl will surely answer that it is noticeable when erecting. In fact, everything is not as primitive as it seems. Psychologists confirm that the desire to possess a woman betrays a man's appearance, facial expressions, body movements. Speech can only convey the information that a person intends to convey to others, and the face and body will convey the real feelings and state of an agitated man.
To understand that a man is awakened, there are certain signs.
The most proven and accurate way to check if a guy is horny is to look at his pants just below the waist, or better yet, to touch his hand.
Erection is the dominant sign of a man's sexual arousal. At the time of reed of blood to the head of the penis, the male organ hardens. In this case, the internal pressure may coincide with the arterial pressure, allowing the organ to change shape and increase its size.
There are times when erection does not occur with emotional sexual arousal. This is a sign of vascular disease, diabetes mellitus, mental illness or stress.
Non-verbal signals
There are several non-verbal body signals that better than any word tell about a man's sexual condition.
- During the conversation, the guy involuntarily begins to move closer to the object of his attention. And gradually the distance between the corpses inevitably decreases. Then follows a light pressure on the hands and feet. This gesture will not cause active action, it will be almost invisible. But this is how a new love story can begin.
- If a woman is nearby, the man will touch her and hug her. But it so happens that circumstances do not allow this, and he tries to take his hands: buttons and buttons up the collar, grins with a tie, twists a button, straightens and ruffles the hair, pulls at the jacket. With sufficient arousal, the young man wants his partner to know. A man can get aroused when he touches her hand or other parts of the body, straightens the lady's hair, looking for a mutual appearance, while leaning literally close. Therefore, do not be surprised when an outgoing gentleman suddenly starts actively helping out of the car or serving a coat. Everything is understandable: pleasant participatory movements are another way of touching the object of your interest. When sexual arousal comes, the guy automatically starts stroking and spinning in a hands an object that has fallen into his hands, which has the shape of a cylinder. Be it a pen, a glass, etc. This is no longer a signal, but a crucial appeal.
Freezing phases
If a man expresses sexual sympathy for a woman, then he will definitely denote this with his behavior. If the meeting takes place in a restaurant, he will fill the wine glass and offer a snack and help sit on a chair and get up from it. He will do all this not only thanks to good upbringing, but his actions will be guided by the instinct of the masculine principle - to have an extra opportunity to touch his desire. This expression of concern suggests that the young man is planning a breakfast together.
Posed by a man
After noticing a sexually interesting girl, the inner rocker switch for the conqueror of the female heart changes to the position "alpha male". And here begins movements that will tell about a man's interest: a quick pull-up of the abdomen, adjustment of the back (a touch of good physical shape), a rotation of the shoulders, in a sitting position, raising of the legs. Such a gesture suggests that he has something to offer a woman.
In addition, the guy in front of the subject for his worship tries to appear in a favorable light. He straightens, pulls at his stomach, straightens his chest.
Sometimes signs of incipient arousal can be read by touching the face (nose, chin, ears). Women also have such gestures. They betray tension. And by touching the lips or licking them uniquely, the sexual overtones of these manipulations suggest.
Physical reactions
- Rapid breathing, enlarged pupils, separated lips, a slightly hoarse voice - this is a conditional signal that a man's thoughts are working in a certain direction.
- Slightly dilated nostrils apparently capture the scent of the female, indicating clear sympathy.
- At the same time, thirst arises, which is associated with an increase in body temperature.
- Visible redness on the cheeks.
- Touching the chin, nose, ears. According to psychologists, by stimulating these zones, the guy tries to hide reflex nervousness and autoerotic symptoms. When aroused, the skin of the face becomes very sensitive to touch.
- When a man is obsessed with passion, he loses control of his gaze and his speech. With a blurry appearance, blushing and pale, even the most sensible guy begins to wear such nonsense that a girl may doubt his adequacy. It's simple - at this point, information is being processed that is not being sent to the brain at all.
- A sign of an agitated state will also be the diversion of the topic of conversation toward intimacy. An erotic association can arise in him when he discusses everyday and everyday things.
Every man is awakened by the visual image. In order for a woman not to constantly monitor her erection and listen to her partner's breathing, for fear of missing a moment of incipient excitement, it is worth learning to interest the man and attract his attention.
And finally a little advice - during love games do not turn off the light, as a young man who does not see a girl will not be able to be awakened enough and she will not know if he is ready forsexual companies.